JANUARY 6th

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ON THIS DAY IN 1759

MARRIES MARTHA DANDRIDGE CUSTIS*

The wedding invitation to the George Washington and Martha Custis wedding.

George Washington & Martha Custis
Wedding Invitation.  GWPL

To Burwell Bassett 

Mount Vernon, 23 May 1785

Dear Sir,

It would have given me much pleasure to have seen you at Richmond; and it was part of my original plan to have spent a few days with you at Eltham, whilst I was in the lower parts of the country; but an intervention of circumstances not only put it out of my power to do the latter, but would have stopped my journey to Richmond altogether, had not the meeting (the time and the place) been of my own appointing. I left company at home when I went away, who proposed to wait my return, among whom a Mr. Pine, an artist of eminence, came all the way from Philadelphia for some materials for an historical painting which he is about, and for which he was obliged to stay ‘till I got back, which I did after an absence of eight days only.

George Washington holds Martha Custis' hand during their marriage on 6 January 1759.

My Nephew G. Aug: Washington is just returned from his peregrination; apparently much amended in his health, but not quite free from the disorder in his breast. I have understood that his addresses to your Daughter were made with your consent; and I now learn that he is desirous, and she is willing to fulfill the engagement they have entered into; and that they are applying to you for permission therefor.**

It has ever been a maxim with me thro’ life, neither to promote, nor to prevent a matrimonial connection, unless there should be something indispensably requiring interference in the latter: I have always considered marriage as the most interesting event of one’s life, the foundation of happiness or misery; to be instrumental therefore in bringing two people together who are indifferent to each other, and may soon become objects of hatred; or to prevent a union which is prompted by mutual esteem and affection, is what I never could reconcile to my feelings; and therefore, neither directly nor indirectly have I ever said a syllable to Fanny or George upon the subject of their intended connexion; but as their attachment to each other seems to have been early formed, warm and lasting, it bids fair to be happy: if therefore you have no objection, I think the sooner it is consummated the better.

The marriage ceremony for George Washington and Martha Custis on 6 January 1759.

Life of George Washington. Marriage to Martha Custis.
Artist: Claude Regnier. Library of Congress

I have just now informed them (the former thro’ Mrs. Washington) that it is my wish they should live here.

It is unnecessary I hope to say how happy we should be to see you, her brothers, and any of her friends here upon this occasion (who can make it convenient and are disposed to come); all here join in best wishes for you, and with very sincere esteem &c.

G:o Washington

* Martha Dandridge Custis, a widow, brought to the marriage two children (Martha Parke Custis and John Parke Custis, two and four years old respectively)

** regarding the marriage of George Augustine Washington and Frances “Fanny” Bassett

Sources and Abbreviations

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